I’m a firm believer that how we pass information across is more important than the information we’re passing across. The former, I believe, is partly responsible for the brick walls that debates on social issues keep hitting. Whenever the issue is rape, sexual assault, Kemen, feminism or even Biafra, people understandably get angry. The anger... Read More
Tonight’s eviction show is the most shocking we’ve seen so far on the show. Bally was let out of the House in one of the tightest voting results. He earned the lowest percentage 23.76% of the total votes cast and what has viewers talking is how fellow nominated housemate, TBoss managed to gain more votes... Read More
Welcome to the Octagon session this week. The Octagon: We appreciate your taking time out to join this chat session. We have two moderators in the room who will only offer guidance where necessary. Please feel free to openly share your thoughts and experiences. Let’s begin with some introductions before going into the discussion.... Read More
Word on the streets has it that MMM has crashed but wait no… Before you die of a heart attack, this Twitter user has a precise explanation of what went wrong with him. By defining the simple process by which Ponzi schemes crash, he explains why MMM users need to not fret. Fellas, MMM didn't... Read More
Welcome To The Octagon. We appreciate you taking time out to join this chat session. We have two moderators in the room who will only offer guidance where necessary. Please feel free to openly share your thoughts and experiences. Let’s begin with introductions. Can everyone let us know who they are and share a bit... Read More
Welcome to another episode of The Octagon session… The Octagon: Welcome to The Octagon. We appreciate your taking time out to join this chat session which is one of the first of many conversations to go on www.theoctagon.com.ng. This session will end at 2pm. We have two moderators in the room who will only offer... Read More
On this week’s episode of The Octagon Session… The Octagon: Welcome to The Octagon. We appreciate your taking time out to join this chat session which is one of the first of many conversations to go on www.theoctagon.com.ng. This session will end at 5pm. We have two moderators in the room who will only offer... Read More
https://www.instagram.com/p/BMYfjuljd_v/ This is how we imagine this conversation between Senators Dino Melaye and Ben Murray-Bruce: Sen BMB: Senator, about this $29.9 billion loan that the Federal Government is requesting from World Bank and the rest that they want us to approve, it’s not making common sense to me… Sen Dino Melaye: Well, that really does... Read More
Today saw the gathering of engaged citizens coming together to have a conversation on stories of victims who survived the Boko Haram insurgency in North East Nigeria. The 2-hour event tagged Conversations on ‘We Survived Boko Haram’ stories was based on the true life accounts of Nigerians who shared their experiences and testimonies of triumph and survival with... Read More
Another episode of Conversations with Labo is here! On this episode, Labo hosts the ebullient and gifted singer, Omawumi as she discusses fashion, friendship and life in general. Watch below.
The second episode of Conversations With Labo is out again! This episode features an insightful conversation on Porn Culture in Nigeria with Subomi Plumptre, a social media strategist. Watch below.
It is one thing to stand for yourself and it’s another thing to stand behind your friend and defend her against any form of persecution. This is what Omoni Oboli did on Friday when she defended her Nollywood colleague and friend, Chioma Akpotha against several accusations from an aggrieved follower. The follower @agbajoy had commented on... Read More
by Richmond Okezie It’s the social media generation. Different people use social media to, among other things, meet people, for different reasons; identity thieves, serial killers & scammers need to find unsuspecting victims, some need to reconnect with their high school crushes, others want to stalk their exes, spammers need to find obese people to... Read More
Every week, we go searching for everyday Nigerians and we have an unfiltered conversation via WhatsApp or BlackBerry with them on the most urgent issues facing our nation. There is no artifice, and no preparation. We want to know exactly how people see their country and it’s biggest challenges – just the way you talk... Read More
Last year, a bank invited me as Keynote Speaker at a get-ready-for-work conference. I accepted because speaking to young people looking for opportunities is the most fun part of my work. Still I doubted that young people (already a bit fatigued by generalized conferences) would attend. I arrived that morning at 8am, two hours before... Read More
by Rudolf Okonkwo “You’re an idiot.” “Ok. I’ve heard that one before.” “You’re a compound fool.” “I’ve heard that one, too. Don’t you have anything new?” “Whether you like it or not, President Jonathan will remain president until 2019.” “If the Nigerian people reelect him, who am I to say no? It’s not in my... Read More
by Tunde Fagbenle Going through my email archives, I found an interesting exchange I had about a year ago with a respected egbon of mine who reads this column both out of “duty” and interest.He emailed me in response to a piece I wrote titled, “The Sad Cankerworm of Ethnicity” where I narrowed the Nigerian... Read More
by Meghna Mukherjee When you’re learning how to break the ice at a party, bringing something for the party like a bottle of wine that everyone can enjoy is a fabulous way to get conversations started! Focus your conversation on what you brought by offering it to people. 1. Smile The one accessory you always need... Read More
by Jessica Grover None of us like to hear negative feedback in any area of our lives. But in reality, constructive criticism is really good for drawing attention to areas that need improvement in your life. Don’t be afraid to ask your friends, boss or spouse about their honest opinions. 1. DON’T COME OFF AS... Read More
by Nikita Mukherjee Getting her to smile works magic for breaking the ice as women love a man who crack them up. Humour sets up a pleasant context and give her the impression that you’re a fun person to be around. Cracking a good-humoured joke can make all the different between picking up and striking... Read More
by Bea If you suspect your date might be a rapist, don’t go out with them. Or go to a crowded place. But don’t bring a friend along to chaperone. It’s really uncomfortable for your date, your friend will end up feeling like a third wheel, and you will look like a total dork. 1. Look too... Read More
by TNN Be around them but don’t pay too much attention. It will trigger their sense of curiosity and help you keep the equation balanced in your head. 1. Show interest, smile A simple smile can do wonders in getting your crush’s attention. It is a foolproof ice-breaker. Even if that person doesn’t know you,... Read More
by Oprah 1. How to Delegate Make certain the people around you have good values, good judgment, and are loyal. Allow them to impress you but be sure they’re comfortable coming to you for feedback. Most important, hire people smarter than you!—Ivanka Trump, executive VP, Trump Organization; principal of Ivanka Trump fashion and accessories lines... Read More
by Jena Pincott The interrogative, Pink writes, “prompts you to summon the resources and strategies to accomplish the task” and motivates you from within. 1. One Brain-Boosting Germ We all know that outdoor time can do wonders for our performance. But there’s a surprising new reason: a bacterium called Mycobacterium vaccae, which lurks in the soil. When... Read More
by Laura Travis Once you’ve zoomed in on the source of the problem, it’s time to have an honest talk with your partner 1. Think about what went wrong. The first step to saving your relationship is pinpointing the root cause of the problem. Sometimes you may pinpoint one major reason, like cheating. More often... Read More
by Laura Travis First date questions work on two levels – helping you find out more about your date and sending them signals about your interest in them. 1. Start with a compliment. It’s always a good strategy to start with a genuine compliment. This will help break the ice and make your date feel... Read More
by Temie Giwa ….the fascinating conversation died out when the proponent of the ‘Child not bride’ initiative focused on moral outrage while ignoring the huge elephant in the room: inequality and poverty. What does girl child marriage, deportation of destitutes in Lagos, and many other major conversations Nigerians have been having recently have in common? On... Read More
by Corina Dondas 1. Keep in Mind The Purpose of Your Call One of the most efficient tips for how to talk on the phone I could give you is to tell you to always keep in mind the purpose of your phone-call. Sometimes, you might tend to talk too much on the phone (I... Read More
by Alex Matlock What guys need to realize is that by leaning in to listen to her every word they are basically telling the chick i’m so glad i’m talking to you right now, you’re so amazing. There are a lot of things out there that will directly affect your success with women. The items on... Read More