I used to make this mistake a lot, and today I continue to be surprised when people make that elementary mistake. People get unhappy, and they assume the solution is…
Read MoreTherapy helps. But when it comes to emotions, therapy is about management more than anything else. And what you want is a shift in consciousness. I like those who request…
Read MoreNo matter what other drivers are doing, you can't move forward if you spend your time looking at them. Some other people have faster and better cars, you will be…
Read MoreOne of the interns at one of our companies came to spend an evening with me - he had things that had been worrying him for a while about his…
Read MoreThat relationship you’re in, that friendship you’re participating in, that business you’re running, that church or mosque or temple you’re attending, that girl that’s flirting with you, that restaurant you…
Read MoreTimi Dakolo, Iyin Aboyeji, Adebola Williams, Adaora Mbelu, and Bolanle Olukanni were among the personalities present yesterday in Surulere, Lagos at the launch of the pilot location of The Joy…
Read MoreI shared a mail from someone who said she doesn’t understand what I mean by being perfect or complete as she is because “I don’t feel perfect or complete in…
Read MoreTwo years or so ago, I was selected for a Stanford programme for entrepreneurs. It was, of course, a prestigious programme, and it had taken a while to get to…
Read MoreParticipants at the 2019 Social Media Week Lagos joined Chude Jideonwo, the founder of Joy Inc. for a session focused on how young Nigerians can truly flourish and find fulfillment…
Read MoreWhen I posted on social media in December about feeling sadly and barely avoiding the pit of depression, I was struck by how many people reached me, in somewhat of…
Read MoreYou are counting all the people who didn’t say yes to you, didn’t stay with you, didn’t love you the way you deserved, who broke your heart viciously, who didn’t…
Read MoreThere is nothing wrong with striving to improve your life situation. You can improve your life situation, but you cannot improve your life. Life is primary. Life is your deepest…
Read MoreIf you’re a committed reader of this newsletter, then you probably know what I know: that money doesn’t lead to happiness, that status is a game that leads to a…
Read MoreI like drama. I am also naturally given to drama. And I attract a number of dramatic people to myself. Drama makes like a bit more fun, enhances the experience,…
Read MoreNew you, yeah? Well, how has that worked for you all these years? For much of you, not very much. How about old you, getting better, making decisions to grow…
Read MoreI shared one of the most profound moments of my life with the audience of TEDx Ungwarimi, where I was invited as a guest over the weekend. My therapist was…
Read MoreFriend, ask me: “Do you care what people think about you, Chude?” My answer will be this: “On most days? No. Because I truly know that it doesn’t matter. What…
Read MoreSometimes your friends will be unreasonable. Sometimes they will be annoying, they will say the wrong things, do the wrong things, be insensitive, be selfish, not be there for you…
Read MoreI was at dinner with a mentor the other day, and he asked me, "So are you still based outside Nigeria?" Now, if you live in Nigeria, you know that being seen…
Read MoreWhen I began to learn about living a joyful life, I would find myself ashamed whenever I was sad. Almost as if I was failing a lesson I should already…
Read More…for living what Brene Brown calls a “wholehearted” life - what I call a life of “joy”? Authentic + Courage + Compassion. Authenticity: Show up everywhere, everyday with your truest best self –…
Read MoreWhen someone asks you a favour, if your reply is "I sadly don’t have the money. I haven’t even paid for X", you expect empathy, even sympathy, right? But when…
Read MoreWhen others respect you or love you, or in other ways hold you in esteem, there is always the temptation for them to idolize you, to put you on a pedestal. That’s because people like…
Read MoreThe moment has been stuck in my head ever since. It was 17 years ago. I had just won my first prize outside of high school – the British Council…
Read MoreHim: And you made a statement on how only those who have deep emotions can reach deep or something like that? Me: Yeah... Him: Well...I went through a deeper ocean on Monday. And…
Read MoreChude Jideonwo, founder of the benefit company focused on building happier flourishing Africans, Joy, Inc. [] has concluded his two month #TheJoyTour with an edition of The Joy Masterclass hosted…
Read MoreJoy, Inc. founder, Chude Jideonwo is the face on the cover of this Sunday’s edition of Nigeria’s leading weekend magazine, The Guardian Life. Titled ‘The harbinger of joy’, Jideonwo takes…
Read More*Mauritius is the most happy country in Africa, Nigeria is 5th, Cameroon (7th) while Burundi is the least happy in the world. The revolutionary teaching and media benefit corporation focused…
Read MoreThe podcast network is finally starting to come into its own in Nigeria. There are a whole constellation of podcasts dedicated to the Nigerian millennial experience, a couple of humour…
Read MoreAfter 12 years as chief executive of media group, RED based out of Nigeria and Rwanda, Chude Jideonwo has announced his new venture, Joy, Inc. The company which has a…
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