byRaluca State The walk down the aisle is everything you hope it will be. But eight years into marriage, I can tell you that none of those things matter in my marriage. Okay, so maybe you’ve been dating for two years. Or six. Or, in my case, 10+…(we were young when we started, give us... Read More
by Samantha Bunch She never speaks of the future with you. All of the talk about the future, is now gone. This shows you she is losing interest. When you are in a relationship, you want to know the 10 signs that your girlfriend is losing interest. Some signs are going to be obvious, while... Read More
by David M. Matthews In other words, your very presence makes us feel better. Conversely, if you treat us with disdain, criticism and antipathy (like most of the rest of the world), we’re likely to want to be anywhere but where you are. Women frequently ask me what guys are looking for in their relationships... Read More
by Daniel Rose How would you feel if a woman got YOU close to an orgasm, then all of a sudden stopped, rolled over, and went to sleep? From interviewing beautiful women for the Sex God Method and from talking with female friends informally, I know there are a few things which almost EVERY woman... Read More
by StyleCaster The roles have reversed. In the beginning he used to call you, text you, and send you cute love notes all the time. Now, you’re the one constantly calling him. Relationships are fantastic, especially when they start out wonderfully. You know the type I’m talking about – when after your first date, you... Read More
by Brendan Tapley First, and most important, promise not to judge the other; then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple,... Read More
by Abigail Anaba This guy with two arms and two legs, blessed with mobility, could not move his hands and legs to get his clothes ironed because he had a wife. It’s her job! ‘Is my food ready?’ ‘Clean my shoes for me.’ ‘Is the water for my bath ready?’ ‘Why are my clothes... Read More
by Eli Franklin The good guys are the ones who have learned to hide their thoughts. These are the guys who will show you a good time and make sure you’re having fun, all the while disguising their lustful thoughts. When you go on a first date with a new guy, you may be wondering... Read More
Abstinence is not what nature planned for a healthy human body. “What is not easy?” you ask. Abstaining from sex is not easy, my friend. When you have no one you love or care for, you convince yourself sex doesn’t really matter. It’s no big deal, you tell yourself and anyone who raises an eyebrow... Read More
by Melissa Melms “You shouldn’t fear letting your man know when he’s upset you….That type of communication should make [you and your partner] closer.” It’s not always easy to tell the difference between lust, sexlove and true love. You know you have something special with your man, but you’re still feeling things out and figuring... Read More
by Russell Smith for Inspiyr Ending a relationship can be difficult, but it’s important to maintain a certain level of dignity and respect when dealing with this closure. In a society where high-speed dating is so common, it’s never been more important to know the proper ways to end a relationship. To help keep you... Read More
by DFTM The reason a woman will omit a few escapades from her history is because she is ever fearful of being seen as “easy.” Make no mistake about it, gentlemen; all women lie in certain situations and your girlfriend is no exception. Sometimes she’s only telling half-truths to keep the peace. Sometimes her motives... Read More
By Terri Orbuch, Ph.D. for Next Avenue Many couples mistakenly assume that talking and planning ahead takes the fun and romance out of the experience. This is a myth. What it can do is take the pressure off one of you to initiate and give you both something to look forward to. I met Georgia... Read More
by DFTM Women want and NEED strong emotional experiences in bed. Even the most experienced of men may make a mistake or two in the bedroom from time to time and some end up fumbling more times than their favorite football team. It’s up to you to keep things interesting and to avoid making sexual... Read More
by Emeh Achanga Why would a supposed Christian man, who goes to church on Sundays, pays tithe, has a pastor, believes that God will favour him, openly engage in an adulterous relationship, flaunting his mistress in all of vain society. I know a “the other woman”. She’s a close friend. She lives large on the... Read More
by Glenda Robert You won’t be able to move forward in your relationship unless you free yourself from that moment. Let it go. When a woman finds out her lover is cheating, it’s devastating. It can leave you in a deep depression and could possibly lead to substance abuse. It’s hard to accept because the... Read More
by Ben L., Alex K., and Zach S. But if you’re wearing a sweatshirt and jeans without any makeup and your friends are doing a little something to make themselves appealing, most men’s eyes are going to go for those girls first. It’s a Friday night. Your girlfriends all have date nights with their... Read More
by Nomalanga After listening to Tyrese’s short video, I can honestly say he actually shared a few words of wisdom. There is a video circulating the blogs and internet sites in which R & B singer, Tyrese speaks directly to Black women. In his message, he stresses the importance of finding a balance between being... Read More
by Olatomilade Folaranmi You need to be around people of the same vision and people presently living the live you desire. When you hangout with people of like minds they give you the essential points of there own research or experiences. When wealth is not inherited, it is worked for. Wealth is a result of... Read More
by Christine Akiteng You are quite protective (not possessive or controlling) of one another and of the privacy of your romantic lives. The chemistry between a man and woman can be either good chemistry or bad chemistry. Many of us, through lots of experience know what it feels like to be in a relationship where... Read More
by Dr. Peggy Drexler For these women, marriage is important, but it doesn’t define them. If it doesn’t last, they won’t be destroyed. Back when I was in college, there were rules for the female students. We had to wear skirts to meals. Curfew was strict, broken under threat of expulsion — or worse. Naturally,... Read More
by So Feminine The internet and mobile phones are the easiest way for men to play away and if he’s got something to hide, he’ll find a way of hiding it so watch out when things start to look suspicious. We hate to be the bearers of bad news but men can, and do cheat.... Read More
by Jennifer Ehidiamen Some of us ladies are dating someone whose loyalty/faithfulness we secretly question. The beauty about modern day technology is that even though you are cut off from your regular base, the fact that you are following issues from that base on Twitter, or nosing around to read updates from similar source, you... Read More
by Demola Rewaju Guys might like variety but if it’s the same chic every time, sex isn’t his biggest priority with her, loyalty is. There are some assumptions built over time about the sexes that seem true at first but are mostly false. Where men are concerned, assumptions about us work in our favour sometimes... Read More
The cold hard truth is that you are not special because of your potential; you are special because of your unflinching pursuit of your potential, even more special when you have performed no matter how small. Last week, I had a very heated conversation, not argument, on twitter with some beautiful minds on whether,... Read More
by Margaret Paul You will stop running from love when you are wiling to let go of trying to control how the other person feels about you by giving yourself up and instead risk being fully yourself. Do you want to find the love of your life but find yourself sabotaging relationship after relationship? Are you... Read More
Lately I’ve been curious about what makes a man or woman decide that someone is “The One”. I think there is a defining moment in every relationship when you realize this person is it! But before we get to that point something or some things attract us to the other person in the first place... Read More
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