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The Weekend Watchlist | Movies/Series To Watch This Weekend (My Spy The Eternal City)

The Weekend Watchlist | Movies/Series To Watch This Weekend

The weekend is underway, and in true Ynaija fashion, we are committed to helping you have the most relaxing time ever. With a blend of action thrillers, comedy, drama, and…

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Tinubu avoiding Arise TV townhall meeting because he is too embarrassed to face Nigerians – Atiku campaign; Don’t vote with emotions – Obasanjo | 5 Things That Should Matter Today

Tinubu avoiding Arise TV townhall meeting because he is too embarrassed to face Nigerians - Atiku campaignDon’t vote with emotions - ObasanjoMen who refuse polygamy promote prostitution - Ned NwokoIGP…

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Fatphobia, male centering | Top non-binary tweets we saw from Nigeria this week

Conversations along the themes of the non-binary blog, while sometimes few and far between, continue. We compiled some of the more interesting tweets we saw in the past week. Enjoy,…

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The #SilhoutteChallenge gives us an opportunity to interrogate our gender bias

So much has been written about the inherent bias with which we judge the actions of people based solely on the gender at the receiving end of said judgement. Time…

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3 Nigerian men open up about feeling unlovable when they are broke

The designation of men as ‘providers’ is as old as human civilisation, and while the cost of this on men’s overall well-being – particularly as regards to their sense of…

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3 Men share why they chose silence after they got sexually assaulted

Victims of sexual assault have a hard time coming forward, whether they are male, female or non-binary. The reason for their silence will invariably differ from one another’s due to…

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[The Injustice Blog] It’s time for men to start speaking out publicly against rape

Being a man is more than a name, it's about responsibility, reliability and being a role model. These factors are more important than the thing between the legs of many men. The…

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Ever considered online dating? See the 10 words you should never use on your online profile

Online dating? Yes, Yes, Yes, it is a thing. This is 2017 with its gazillion social media apps and the huge endless hole called the internet has made meeting people online…

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Ladies: These are the 7 things your man really wants from you

The male species are a genuine source of confusion to the women folk, regardless of how much they might pretend to understand the male mind and its inner workings. Every…

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How not to act on a first date | 7 mistakes that will send her running

The first date. There's something low-key scary about it, for the girl and definitely for the guy. For the guy, because he's hoping and praying all that texting and setting…

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The Thread: How my ex and his family killed my baby and dumped me

In a world where men have been labelled as "scum", some make it hard for the "good" men around to raise their heads high. A Twitter user, @_ZannaM, shared a…

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10 tips on how to be an awesome 21st century dad

So, it was Father's Day yesterday, the only one on the world calendar just so you know. Chill out,  this is not another Father's Day Vs Mother's Day rant. Fathers…

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Want to look Peng on a budget? | Here’s 5 ways to without breaking the bank

Looking Peng is an art, the beautiful art of putting pieces together and stepping out looking like a million bucks. This is the heart desire of many BUT boy! it…

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How to flirt like a Pro: Dos and Don’ts

Flirting. It's the beginning of it all, the age long ritual of boy-meets-girl that is sometimes conscious and most times unconscious. It is sexual behavior involving verbal or written communication,…

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Kaduna Declaration: We have deployed our men to arrest those involved – Police

The Police on Wednesday said it has deployed operatives to arrest Northern youths over the ultimatum given to Igbos living in the North. A coalition of Northern youths had asked…

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Why are Nigerian women hustling more than men?

by Alexander O. Onukwue The data from the National Bureau of Statistics shows that Nigerian women are more unemployed than men, at the ratio of 16.3% and 12.3% respectively. Also,…

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The Side chick Vs Main chick | 7 sure signs you’re not his girlfriend

Two flip sides of the relationship coin that infuriate womenfolk and, an age-long phenomenon out here in relationship streets. In this era of "wokeness"" and incessant demon behavior at an all-time…

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How to break up with your partner | A 7 Step guide to ending a relationship

Breakups are the worst. The absolute worst. Long cranky days, finding  weird comfort in sugar filled foods, tears and a Taylor Swift/Ed Sheeran playlist. Almost forgot! The sad, sad, movies..…

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Dear Empress Njamah, please shut up if you have nothing reasonable to say about domestic violence

by Tolu O.   There's absolutely no way to go about this article without coming across to Empress Njamah as a hater, when in fact, its sole purpose is to…

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The Thread: Hilarious tricks ladies employ to keep a guy on the hook

Nigerian girls like to string a guy along during the initial stages of a relationship. Baba Oni Gas is sharing his tale of past woes with a lady love. Do…

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Through the eyes of a little boy | The role family plays in raising violent men

by Itunuoluwa Adebo Domestic Violence. Broken ribs. Emotional abuse. Shattered self esteem Those were the hot topics blazing the social media space all week and we are not killing the…

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Shouldn’t we talk about domestic violence against men too?

by Azeez Adeniyi The internet has been agog over the issue of domestic violence in relationships and marriages in the last few days. What seems to have fuelled this discourse…

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The Sexuality Blog: Straight men are actually gay AF

Yeah, I swore. Straight people, especially straight men are gay as hell. They're so gay they put the 'masc for masc'/no fats no fems crowd to shame. Straight men are…

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Men have more tendencies towards corruption than women – Magu

Acting Chairman of the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) has said Ibrahim Magu has said males have more tendencies towards corruption than females. Magu made the statement when the…

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Feminists

The Thread: No, your cunning mother was not a feminist

Many hide behind the cloak of feminism to push wrong agendas. @Chude has something for those who force people into a closet. He insists that people should be allowed to…

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The Thread: “Marriage is not a reward, ” @IjebuPrincesss declares

For those of you who believe in the efficacy of stringing that woman along until you are good and ready to do right by her, here's @IjebuPrincess nipping at your…

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The Thread: Men are not scum, just ‘minor’ incidents

Hardly a day goes by when a women does not scream on Twitter "All men are scum" or some variation of that. This story proves both men and women are…

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The Thread: Don’t make yourself smaller for any man

Nigeria is patriarchy-central. On any given day, any random person will give you advice on how to talk to a man, because well, men are superior to women- even the…

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“In dealing with the opposite sex you’ll need a mighty doze of humility,” Ebonyi lawmaker tells Linda Ikeji

An Ebonyi state House of Assembly member, Maria Ude Nwachi has written an open letter to popular blogger Linda Ikeji. In the letter via her Facebook page, Nwachi advises Linda…

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The Thread: Women, hold men to the same standards to which you hold yourself

This mini lecture by Malak (@mangoes_marxism) is one worth reading and chewing over. In most parts of the world, particularly in Nigeria, a double standard exists between men and women.…

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