by Damola Morenikeji The happenings in my home country some days ago left me numb for several hours. Though it is difficult, I have learnt to find peace and beauty…
Read MoreFeedback needed Chude Jideonwo and Damola Morenikeji Our team at Joy, Inc. is concluding plans for The Joy Retreat later this year, and we will want to know what exactly you’ll want in…
Read Moreby a Guest Contributor Often, I sit down to watch a movie or television show and on numerous occasions, a particular character in the movie starts to really get on…
Read Moreby a Guest Contributor One of the gruelling aspects of my work is fact-checking. The more sensitive the issues being reported, the more I have to be careful about how…
Read Moreby Guest Contributor It is easy to get bogged down by all the things happening around you. But don’t. Look up at the sky once in awhile. Watch the clouds,…
Read Moreby Geraldine Cunha-Herbert Have you ever woken up some days and look at the state of your life and wonder what happened and how did you end up at the…
Read MoreChude Jideonwu I was in a dating app a few years ago and I had in my bio “in 80 years we will all be dead”. The idea is to…
Read MoreEducation, as we know it, is mainly about survival. It tends to often have little to do with our interior life. To know yourself is the best education of all.…
Read Moreby Daniel Adeyemi One thing social media obviously amplifies is that we are social beings. Social media and mass actions constantly remind us that humans would rather support their tribes…
Read MoreFellow traveller, here are some feedback we’ve gotten from this community. Keep sending us how relatable (or not) the experiences of others are, what you are rumbling with and how…
Read MoreThere's nothing more difficult than getting feedback that after you have done your best, someone fixates on a small mistake you made. That pain you feel when you get that…
Read Moreby Guest Contributor The willingness to accept undesirable outcomes is important. It’s vital to our mental health. But it’s also important to make changes when they’re needed. Otherwise, we’d all…
Read Moreby Guest Contributor Humility requires self-reflection. It requires us to assess ourselves honestly. To see the way we really are. To see our insecurities. To see the masks we wear.…
Read Moreby Daniel Adeyemi Almost everything gets better with deliberate practice. This includes expressing your thoughts and emotions. Depending on how you grew up, expressing your thoughts and emotions might not…
Read Moreby Guest Contributor A few months ago, I had a conversation with a younger friend about some terrible situation they were facing at that time. “I’ll stay on my lane”,…
Read Moreby Anonymous Contributor You might as well stop worrying because you’re probably worrying about the wrong things anyway. There are worse things that could happen that you probably haven’t even…
Read Moreby Geraldine Cunha-Herbert I found myself in a space that I didn’t want to be in. I was assured that I wasn’t going to stay there, but I also knew…
Read Moreby Geraldine Cunha-Herbert Dear Journal, I recently found myself in the most precarious situation. An entanglement you may call it. Well, it was the month of August, so that was…
Read Moreby Daniel Adeyemi How would you treat someone that lied to you as often as your fears did? How would you treat a friend that lied to you as often…
Read MoreWe thought of sharing these two feedback from one of the posts we shared some days ago. Keep sending us how relatable (or not) the experiences of others are, what you are…
Read Moreby Daniel Adeyemi I wonder if it should surprise me when people ignore obvious facts over allegiance to their group’s ideologies. One thing social media obviously amplifies is that we’re…
Read Moreby Geraldine Cunha-Herbert Assess your narratives; those stories that you are telling yourself. Slow down. What are they? “I'm not good enough” “I'm disadvantaged” “I can't do it” “I'm…
Read Moreby Damola M. However, one of the best gifts you can give yourself is a reality check. I do this by asking these simple questions. It is easy to get…
Read MoreA couple weeks ago I was trying to hit a few deadlines and sacrificed some sleep in the process. Historically, for me, sleep is always the first thing to go…
Read Moreby Chude Jideonwo I was on a TV interview, and they asked me a question about monetary policy and I said “I don't know.” Ask me about mental and emotional…
Read Moreby Geraldine Cunha When I look at the wildflower around me, I couldn’t help but acknowledge how beautiful it is. But its beauty is not the focus. Not for today.…
Read MoreIs anyone else feeling perpetually behind? Just me? I’ll explain what it feels like for people who are like nah, I'm good. It feels like waking up and knowing there are…
Read More"Grateful for the opportunity to read this" Fellow traveler, We love reading your emails, thoughts, and feedback about the pieces you read. We are blessed to be part of your life, every…
Read Moreby Kara C. So much happens that we don’t see. The editor who’s taking forever with your story is dealing with a health crisis. The friend who never responded to…
Read Moreby Chude Jideonwo When I tell people that sadness is good, they look at me as if I'm mad. I think the Christian Bible says there is a time…
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