by Yanmife A. I have a limited number of guests allowed to visit me at home; I have had this cap for several years. This time around, I struck out…
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Read Moreby Jamie Varon As most people know, I’m currently working on a book. I’m strapping in for a long process, knowing that it takes anywhere from 2-10 years for a…
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Read Moreby Fatima Allahnanan Mohammed It is easier to exit a relationship and very hard to exit a marriage - so I have learnt. There is this distressing truth about love…
Read MoreEvery minute of your life is a spiritual experience, If you learn not to confuse what is happening to you with who you are. He gets it, and explains it…
Read Moreby Mohammed Halwa If your reaction to senselessness has always been to cuddle it till it softens, or until I realize that it is my own brand of senselessness that…
Read Moreby David-salt Ayodele I had just delivered an excelent job to one of our partners, with high reviews and congratulatory messages flowing in. During a post-mortem in the midst of…
Read Moreby Mohammed Halwa I have practiced ‘conscious feeling’ for a week now and yesterday I found myself slumping into a chair and breaking down in tears in the middle of…
Read Moreby Ponmile Shittu Sometimes in January 2014, I found the true meaning of being human and how to be a happy one. “To be truly human is to truly know…
Read Moreby Damola Morenikeji Recently, a friend told me about what is being done in her company to make staff happy and engaged. I laughed when I heard it, and knew…
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Read Moreby Fatima Allahnanan This is for her Whose stepfather kept a cutlass by the side Thrusting forcefully into her While his wife is away for her merchandise In the same…
Read Moreby Ado Aminu Silence is golden, they say, until it staunch the tide of welling emotions that will otherwise have trickled manageably, drip by small drips, bringing delicate release and…
Read Moreby Kara Cutruzzula What’s the most important part of your day? Maybe it’s your morning routine — you love the quiet moments with your best friend. (Coffee.) Or maybe it’s…
Read Moreby Bimpe Aliu I have made it a habit to be okay with knowing that some people can't understand. That's not because I'm not saying it enough, not because I…
Read Moreby Damola Morenikeji Maybe you’ve heard those lies too, and believed them. “Women can multitask better than men. As a man, you should learn how to multitask.” “Fish stink from…
Read Moreby Ore Fakorede Many boys are raised to feel and express a narrow range of emotions: courage, anger, pride, tough stuff. “Big boys don’t cry.” “Be strong.” “Boys don’t say they…
Read MoreFellow traveller, We love reading your emails, thoughts, and feedback about the TDV pieces you read. We are blessed to be part of your life, every day, in the most honourable way.…
Read Moreby Pelumi Shittu What do you do when you miss a loved one? What do you do when you sorrowfully remember the death of a loved one and wish you…
Read Moreby Ado Aminu My mother, if she remembers this incident [from what I shared yesterday], might muse not without a certain amount of wonder, about how I have contrived, or…
Read Moreby Damola Morenikeji One treasured part of the work we do at Joy, Inc. is the ease at which people find clarity to make important decisions after each session. Either it…
Read Moreby Avviva Oluwaseun There's an innate need in everyone to dominate. I believe it's the foundation of all human conflict, the mother of "ego." Yet, it has influenced many great and…
Read More“Good things happen to good people” You have heard that before, haven’t you? So, what do you do when life breaks your heart? This conversation explores it, with calm, and…
Read Moreby Fatima Allahnanan Mohammed I can never forget my first encounter with “Miss Red”. She showed up in red, the colour I hate. My heart skipped the first day I…
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